Tuesday, September 28, 2010

The Tale of ANDAN KAKA

If I rewind my life little bit to fetch one of most treasured moment, definitely this will be the episode where I will land up.

Scene 1:
Class X-C, SRDF and break time. Teacher left the class.

One could spot me in the first bench corner, chit-chatting with Sakthi and Bond-Raji. He(Andans) came to my place with a nicely packed gift box in his hand. We people were busily twaddling in our own world. He interrupted and gave that colorful box to me. I was stupefied and frozen. KKS dropped himself to the spot now. Both insisted me to unwrap the gift. I just didn't know what to do other than uncovering the gift. After taking off the first colorful cover, I found another brown cover enveloping the gift. I removed it off. Then saw another layer of wrapper. Gift was wrapped with multi layer of covers. I guess it would have taken hardly 10 mins to reach the core part of the gift. While stripping the gift, my friends were trying to figure out the gift. I swear they even told that it would be a bomb or insect or lizard inside the box. Finally I was about to give up. My desk started flooding with color papers, cello tape, card board pieces, insulation tape, electrical wire, paper bits, thermocole pieces and all stuffs.... (So many stuffs. I dunno how much time it took for him to pack. Anyways, I liked it alot ;)) Now its time to disclose that precious gift to you all. Gift concealed inside the box was thick card board piece with "Two Words" penned over it. Seeing that all my friends burst out laughing at me. I was totally knocked down. Any guess, what those words are?

It was













Scene 2:
@ My home, that same evening

My mind was fully corrupted and was laying plans to walk on the road of vengeance. I collected many stuffs in & around my home and packed a same kind of gift for him.

Scene 3:
Class X-C, SRDF and lunch time.

Andans came to my place and I handed over the gift to him. He opened it with the same enthusiasm that I had the previous day. This gift didn't take much time to reach the core part. There he found a bunch of feathers(Crow's) within a packet over which I wrote "Two Words" -> "KAKA KAKA". Tit for Tat.









P.S
This space is preserved for two of my precious friends(Andans and KKS). I miss SRDF life and my sweet friends :(

Thursday, September 23, 2010

How to burnout possessiveness?

What happens when you see your closest showing some kind of sympathy, affection, affinity, closeness, fondness towards some other person other than you?

For example, lets take a 5 year old girl Sophie. To her the whole world is her dad. He is her real hero and role model (I guess 90% of girls in the world will have the same kind of perception. May be this would change slightly after reaching teens)

Just think how Sophie will feel like when
Case 1.)
She sees her dad getting a pen or some small gift to her friend Lucy
Case 2.)
Her dad scolds her by saying "Lucy is more (obedient || silent || intelligent || beautiful || helpful || ....) when compared to you."
Case 3.)
Sophie usually asks her dad to return home early so that she can spend some more time with her dad. But dad usually turns up late night saying that he was struck up with his work. One fine day he gets back home early in-order to attend Lucy's Birthday party along with Sophie.

These cases may sound trivial. But to Sophie these are really vital cases.

Even we may face few situations that arise due to possessiveness in our day to day life. How to overcome those?
* The closest not be regarded so close
* By not having anyone as closest
* By not expecting anything from closest
* Your opinion .................... ?

Anju

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

**** Nanben da Nanben ****

It was yesterday, I received a Cryptic phone call from an Anonymous person. It was an unfamiliar voice. Initially she asked for her sister. I replied her that it would be a wrong number. Then she told me that she was insisted to call me up and mock me down by a so called "Friend of mine". I was really agitated and got heated up. I inquired her who was that Great Friend. She was damn adamant in revealing the truth. She asked many questions about my job and personal life. I was more reluctant to answer those questions. Its obvious, one can't shoot back personal information to a stranger. I just can't guess who would do this to me. Whoever it be please don't conceal the truth for a long time.

P.S
Nanben da Nanben. X-(
Very much eager to know this Nanben.